I ran some errands and bought a ton of groceries that day. I wanted to make sure I had plenty of food for my kids and parents who would be arriving that weekend! It was a good and productive day!
We had a few different options on what to do for New Year's Eve, but felt like it would be best to be home. Ryan put the kids to bed and I took it easy. We had a little fondue date at home and I hoped to go to bed early. The fondue date happened but (Praise Jesus) I didn't go to bed early. My typical time that Adaire would move in pregnancy was early morning and late evening. She was super active that morning and I was ready to feel this girl give me some good kicks after chocolate and sparkling grape juice, but all I got was one little kick.
I went upstairs and drank a huge glass of apple juice and took a bath. Surely this would get her going. Except it didn't. I drank two more glasses, laid on my left side for an hour and felt nothing. I began to panic at this point. Ryan thought everything was fine and that I should just go to bed, but I knew I WOULD NOT SLEEP. I really felt the Holy Spirit telling me to GET CHECKED immediately. At this point, my nerves were going so strong. We decided that I should be checked and that there is no shame in being sent home. I placed a call in with my doctor but didn't wait for them to call me back. I grabbed my phone charger, purse and headed out while Ryan stayed at home with our sleeping kids.
On the way to the hospital I began shaking due to the adrenilin. A midwife called me back and also suggested I come in. I told her I was walking in! They quickly checked me in and began looking for a heartbeat. Thankfully, the nurse easily found it and I said, "sweet, can I go home now?" The midwife suggested we do a non-stress test just to make sure and I was certainly fine with that plan.
That's when things changed. While they found a heartbeat, they could tell something was wrong based on a lack of movement. They brought in a "stun thing"to attempt to get her to move, and she didn't. They told me, you're having this baby soon so call your husband! I continued to shake and frantically made calls to let Ryan know and tell my parents to head out.
Thankfully, a dear friend got to our house in 5 minutes and Ryan made it to the hospital very quickly. My labs were being drawn and I continued to shake and pray that our girl would be ok. There was one point where the nurse had to come in and work to find her heartbeat. I'm not sure why or what happened but it took a couple minutes and I could tell we were close to being rushed in right away to get Adaire out. Again, God in his mercy allowed the nurse to get her heartbeat and my labs to come back prior to surgery.
Another doctor from a a well trusted practice was on call for my ob since it was a holiday. I was so grateful for her calm and competent presence. I was scared but I knew Jesus was so very close.
Soon it was go time and I was able to receive a spinal and be awake for her surgery. Surgery began and very quickly things got really quiet. She came out and the doctor said "double nuchal cord in a knot." That meant the cord was around her neck twice and also in a knot (the really serious part). Everyone but me knew what that meant, but I knew something was really wrong. They did not tell me how serious things were but instead said, "this OR is so small they just need a little more room to check her out." I knew things were serious and I just waited knowing that MY Savior was with me and the same God that was so close to me formed my precious girl and loved her more than my breaking mama heart. I later learned she came out blue with a low apgar score.
Adaire stayed in the nursery for a few hours for monitoring but showed no issues. This WAS HUGE. Ryan bounced back and forth bringing me pictures and giving updates. Then she got to come meet me and I immediately was able to nurse her. That was such a treasure for me.